Simple Words That Save Lives

Simple words that save lives

Rotary Melbourne recently welcomed Dr David Horgan, founder of the Australian Suicide Prevention Foundation, who presented his work on WhatDoISay.org, a free website helping ordinary people support someone at risk of suicide.

“Every family will be affected, directly or indirectly, by mental health problems,” Dr Horgan says. “You already know someone who needs this, you just don’t know who yet.”

Dr Horgan, formerly Clinical Associate Professor at the University of Melbourne and a “psychiatrist of last resort” for suicide and depression, shared some sobering mental health figures with attendees at the meeting.

Around 3.3 million Australians have had serious thoughts of suicide, and one million have attempted it. While most people at risk never call a crisis line, 70 to 80 per cent signal their distress to friends and family. Yet research shows 57 per cent of people freeze in that moment, unsure what to say or afraid of making things worse.

The website he has created: WhatDoISay.org solves this problem. The website equips family, friends and colleagues with more than 500 medically approved phrases, the same ones used by mental health professionals, ready to send with a single tap to someone they are worried about. 

"Each message helps wrap an emotional safety net around the person at risk," Dr Horgan says. 

There is no cost, no waiting and no training needed, and because help arrives without being requested, there is no stigma. 

The initiative won first prize in Suicide Prevention Australia’s 2024 competition and is now expanding internationally through Rotary networks, with releases underway in Sri Lanka and plans for India.

Visit www.WhatDoISay.org to see the resource for yourself. The site is completely safe to browse, and you may find it becomes one of the most valuable bookmarks you keep. 

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